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15 Things We All Did In The '90s That Are No Longer Socially Acceptable

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<div><p>It can be painful to consider just how much time has passed since the '90s (seriously don't think too hard about it) and how much of day-to-day life has changed since then. &nbsp;</p><div><figure><a href="http://imgur.com/gallery/5GhDF" target="_blank"><amp-img src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/5ddb780644783ff2f6d3c722d72f78bd.png" title="" alt="" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-img></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center"><cite><a href="http://imgur.com/gallery/5GhDF" target="_blank">Imgur</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>But it's hard not to be reminded when you start to realize some things that were 100% totally fine then are now at best completely unacceptable and at worst worthy of complete social exile. Here are some of the things we never thought twice about doing in the '90s that we could never get away with today.</p><p></p><div align="center" data-freestar-ad="__336x280 __789x280" id="throwbacks_articles_incontent _1"> </div><p></p><h3>1. Stopping by someone's house completely unannounced to see if they were home</h3><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/hulu-seinfeld-l0MYyv6UK0Bd4DE76" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-52.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Nobody saw any problems with this<cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/hulu-seinfeld-l0MYyv6UK0Bd4DE76" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>We did it all the time as kids, but now if it happens to us we just pretend we're not home.</p><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/reactiongifs-1WQLKmc1Gfhny" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-56.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">What happens when you don't tell me you're coming over<cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/reactiongifs-1WQLKmc1Gfhny" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><h3>2. Smoking</h3><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/90s-movies-amc-tv-80s-teen-comedies-vncqJ0M3pAFdC" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-57.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Everyone in the '90s, basically<cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/90s-movies-amc-tv-80s-teen-comedies-vncqJ0M3pAFdC" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>Sure we knew how dangerous it was, but no one really cared. Smoking indoors and around kids was also just a regular thing that people did.</p><div><figure><amp-img src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/e533c8b4a924be370e44018f3521e669.jpg" title="" alt="" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-img><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">The '90s just DGAF<cite>ABC</cite></figcaption></figure></div><h3>3. Using AOL</h3><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/1990s-1aejdvBiVkJsk" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-58.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center"><cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/1990s-1aejdvBiVkJsk" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>We all have that one family member that just won't get rid of their AOL email and we all judge them a little for it. It's been almost 20 years, Mabel, it's time for an update.</p><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/teens-vIwbtpMuWeV0I" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-59.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Coincidentally "almost 20 years" is also about how long it now takes AOL to load<cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/teens-vIwbtpMuWeV0I" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p></p><div align="center" data-freestar-ad="__336x280 __789x280" id="throwbacks_articles_video"> </div><p></p><h3>4. Throwing/pushing people into pools</h3><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/togethernesshbo-togetherness-2x06-hbo-xThuW47nw3Ye71dhXG" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-60.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center"><cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/togethernesshbo-togetherness-2x06-hbo-xThuW47nw3Ye71dhXG" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>Thanks to everyone having smartphones, what used to be a pretty hilarious joke is now a very expensive prank.</p><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/photobucket-pictures-smith-PzQvWAhgfUipW" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-61.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Live footage of me watching people get pushed into pools<cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/photobucket-pictures-smith-PzQvWAhgfUipW" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><h3>5. &nbsp;Leaving your kids in the car when you're just quickly running into the store</h3><div><figure><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGhuLkjl4iI" target="_blank"><amp-img src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/dafuq-little-girl-meme-18.jpg" title="" alt="" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-img></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Maybe don't?<cite><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGhuLkjl4iI" target="_blank">Lily &amp; Chloe Official</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>Considering how <a href="https://www.throwbacks.com/10-things-you-absolutely-did-every-time-you-went-shopping-with-your-parents/?utm_source=throwbacks&amp;utm_medium=TBinterlink">awful we could be</a> while shopping with our parents, it makes sense that if they just needed to be quick they would leave us to wait in the car.</p><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/car-80s-deal-with-it-ZsZmffS4YS5yw" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-63.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">It didn't always end well<cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/car-80s-deal-with-it-ZsZmffS4YS5yw" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p></p><div align="center" data-freestar-ad="__336x280 __789x280" id="throwbacks_articles_incontent_2"> </div><p></p><h3>6. Offensive Humor</h3><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/being-struggle-sneaker-p4cqQ0gUIMcU0" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-65.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Watching 90s sitcoms now<cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/being-struggle-sneaker-p4cqQ0gUIMcU0" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>There are a lot of things we could say and joke about that just won't fly now. Just try re-watching <em>Friends</em> and you'll quickly realize it's about 70% gay jokes about Chandler.</p><div><figure><amp-img src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/YikesOW.jpeg" title="" alt="" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-img><figcaption class="op-vertical-center"><cite>Wikimedia Commons</cite></figcaption></figure></div><h3>7. Kids playing or going places unsupervised</h3><div><figure><a href="https://www.pinterest.com/matthewmilo/h-u-m-o-r/?lp=true" target="_blank"><amp-img src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/street-lights-funny-meme.jpg" title="" alt="" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-img></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Our curfew was pretty simple<cite><a href="https://www.pinterest.com/matthewmilo/h-u-m-o-r/?lp=true" target="_blank">Pinterest</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>We would basically get kicked out of our houses for the day, but now if a kid walks to school alone the cops get called. Kids now at least have phones and can be in constant contact, as far as our parents were concerned we'd vanished off the face of the Earth until we came back home.</p><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/filmeditor-home-alone-christmas-movies-xUPOqyZmYTKIx7N0di" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-70.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">You're a typical mom in the '90s, relax<cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/filmeditor-home-alone-christmas-movies-xUPOqyZmYTKIx7N0di" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><h3>8. Calling someone just to talk</h3><div><figure><amp-img src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/tumblr_m5nyjd5ZPL1r4judho1_500.png" title="" alt="" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-img><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">We'd spend literal hours doing this<cite>Disney Channel</cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>Talking aimlessly on the phone used to be a perfectly reasonable thing, but now you should really only call if there's an important reason. Otherwise, just text.</p><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/being-pure-twentysomethings-xhaHU2l56OSYM" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-71.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Actually, though.<cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/being-pure-twentysomethings-xhaHU2l56OSYM" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>And those aren't the only things we can't get away with anymore...</p><p></p><p></p><h3>9. Being unreachable by phone</h3><div><figure><a href="http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/black-guy-on-the-phone" target="_blank"><amp-img src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/The_Real_Story_Behind_Black_Guy_On_The_Phone_Meme-500x500.jpg" title="" alt="" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-img></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center"><cite><a href="http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/black-guy-on-the-phone" target="_blank">Know Your Meme</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>Even though none of us ever want to answer our phones, if someone does call you had better answer the damn thing, otherwise everyone will think you're dead in a ditch somewhere.</p><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/search/phone-call" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-72.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center"><cite><a href="https://giphy.com/search/phone-call" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p></p><div align="center" data-freestar-ad="__336x280 __789x280" id="throwbacks_articles_incontent _1"> </div><p></p><h3>10. Making plans days in advance and just going without confirming that everyone is still going</h3><div><figure><a href="http://data.whicdn.com/images/136715968/large.jpg" target="_blank"><amp-img src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/20s-cancelling-plans.jpg" title="" alt="" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-img></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center"><cite><a href="http://data.whicdn.com/images/136715968/large.jpg" target="_blank">Firefly Daily</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>It used to be that when you made plans to do something you, well, did it. Now you have to confirm with everyone at least 34 times beforehand, and you'll still have some jerk bail at the last minute. </p><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/mean-girls-pMcE3XWgTGWZO" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-74.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Rude.<cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/mean-girls-pMcE3XWgTGWZO" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><h3>11. Applying for a job in person</h3><div><figure><a href="http://www.wsbtv.com/-/man-gets-new-job-after-handing-out-resumes-on-side" target="_blank"><amp-img src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/Man-20gets-20new-20job-20after-20handing-20out-20resumes-20on-20side-20of-20road_7550105_1456591819550_2620603_ver1-0_640_360.jpg" title="" alt="" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-img></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Though apparently if you do it like this it will work.<cite><a href="http://www.wsbtv.com/-/man-gets-new-job-after-handing-out-resumes-on-side" target="_blank">WSB-TV</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>We've all had some clueless (if well-intentioned) Baby Boomer tell us that if we want a job "just go knock on their door and you'll get a job." But if you actually try and apply anywhere in person they'll look at you like you're crazy and tell you to go apply online. </p><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/jobs-CfbOk5smAlKc8" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-75.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Filling out applications like<cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/jobs-CfbOk5smAlKc8" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p></p><div align="center" data-freestar-ad="__336x280 __789x280" id="throwbacks_articles_video"> </div><p></p><h3>12. Going out of town and just not telling anyone</h3><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/party-warning-davin-MOTkF7sT8u2Z2" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-76.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Bye, suckers<cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/party-warning-davin-MOTkF7sT8u2Z2" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>Before social media and smartphones, if you wanted to just get away for a bit you could totally just peace out for a week without telling anyone, and no one would really say anything. Now if you try that you'll be coming home to missing posters and search parties.</p><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/cheezburger-animation-the-simpsons-homer-simpson-zac5EvG19YCVa" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-77.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Me trying to quietly leave town<cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/cheezburger-animation-the-simpsons-homer-simpson-zac5EvG19YCVa" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><h3>13. Meeting or dropping people off at airport gates</h3><div><figure><amp-img src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/Ross_and_Rachel_finale_2-720x519.jpg" title="" alt="" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-img><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">Where else could you have dramatic, romantic reunion scenes?<cite>NBC</cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>Before 9/11, airport security was a lot more laid back and going to the gate to say goodbye (or hello) just wasn't a big deal. The ever-increasing security measures means no more dramatic, "will they, won't they" rom-com scenes, so basically <em>Sleepless in Seattle </em>would never happen today. </p><div><div><div><amp-youtube height="9" width="16" layout="responsive" data-videoid="J8fj3-BAmKg"></amp-youtube></div></div></div><p></p><div align="center" data-freestar-ad="__336x280 __789x280" id="throwbacks_articles_incontent_2"> </div><p></p><h3>14. Asking people for directions to their house</h3><div><figure><a href="http://www.autographsmovieposters.com/Hepburn%20letters/Hepburn_collection.htm" target="_blank"><amp-img src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/directions.jpg" title="" alt="" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-img></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center"><cite><a href="http://www.autographsmovieposters.com/Hepburn%20letters/Hepburn_collection.htm" target="_blank">Hepburn Letter Collection</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>Thanks to the internet, if you have someone's address you can easily find the directions yourself. Why are you even asking? Google Maps is faster at these things than I am, even MapQuest would be.</p><div><figure><a href="http://www.trainingforwarriors.com/are-you-ready-for-an-upgrade/" target="_blank"><amp-img src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/the-pain-of-going-to-places-using-printed-out-mapquest-directions-and-then-getting-lost-and-being-completely-screwed.jpg" title="" alt="" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-img></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">How did we ever survive having to live like this?<cite><a href="http://www.trainingforwarriors.com/are-you-ready-for-an-upgrade/" target="_blank">Training for Warriors</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><h3>15. Actually memorizing people's phone numbers</h3><div><figure><a href="https://onsizzle.com/t/protip" target="_blank"><amp-img src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/phone-numbers-jail.png" title="" alt="" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-img></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center">The struggle is real<cite><a href="https://onsizzle.com/t/protip" target="_blank">Sizzle</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><p>Seeing as our phones/"the cloud" can now store basically every number you'll ever need, having someone memorize your number can either come across as really sweet or incredibly creepy. Usually creepy.</p><div><figure><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/season-7-the-simpsons-7x20-3o6Mb5h1UQlrtoebK0" target="_blank"><amp-anim src="https://legacy.throwbacks.com/content/images/2017/07/giphy-78.gif" height="9" width="16" layout="responsive"></amp-anim></a><figcaption class="op-vertical-center"><cite><a href="https://giphy.com/gifs/season-7-the-simpsons-7x20-3o6Mb5h1UQlrtoebK0" target="_blank">Giphy</a></cite></figcaption></figure></div><h3>Times certainly have changed since the '90s!</h3></div>

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